Getting Yourself Back Together After The Moment Of Despair

By Sharon Richardson


Depression is something that humans should not ignore and be laughed about. When a person experience that, not only it would cause emotional impairment to him or her but also in social aspects. That mental disorder usually rooted from severe sadness and pain that came from certain situations. It could happen to anyone. For that reason, help and guidance are required so those people will recover after waking up from a morning of despair.

Tragedies could really affect the life of person. It is somehow like a huge storm suddenly changing everything around your and leaving you broken into pieces. As a result, fixing those broken pieces is difficult and it would take long for it to be fully recovered. Experiencing some tragic incidents has emotional impacts to people.

Even the society itself can turn into a toxic for you. Nowadays, people are attacking each other through social media. One fault then everybody starts to hate you for what you did and verbally assaults you with their online posts. As a result, you could not face the outside world you anymore.

Experiencing those incidents especially in regular days is not good anymore. You cannot let yourself tolerate those pains that you felt always. Your friends and family are doing their best to help in order for you to function well again. However, you chose not to.

Sometimes comforting words from people may not help you to become even better. Probably you are not even listening to what they were saying at you. Most likely because you feel that they do not understand anything at all for they have not experienced what you were experiencing at the moment. You tend to avoid others and you cannot be blamed for it. However, you still need to help yourself. You cannot just stay inside your room forever and let yourself being devoured by the despair haunting you. Doing nothing will just make your situation even worse.

Everyone experiencing that kind of emotion wanted it to fade. But how will that be achievable if you have no willingness to move forward? If you choose to remain that state, you may reach to a severe state to the point that nothing can help you anymore.

If your partner broke up with you and your heart ache so much, then feel the pain or perhaps let it out through crying. Accept the fact that you are hurt and do not hold back. Face it and switch your mindset saying you will be okay after this, not on giving up. Feeling it can really help but feeling it more by inflicting yourself with physical pain or doing drugs is not the proper and best thing to do.

If they say distractions are the options, do not dive on that directly. Some would want you to just chug some beer until you forget it. Or use drugs to escape. But escaping that feeling will just make it worse. Because once you come back on your senses, it will just resurface. If that keep on bothering, might as well face it and fight it. Remaining positive always is not simple. But if you start making small steps like changing your mindset, you might probably make it. Besides, time really heals wounds. Healing is not immediate action. The process is incremental, meaning you will take it step-by-step.

Putting yourself back is hard after facing some trials. But always remain positive. In darkness, there is always light ahead of it.




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